Boesen The Florist

Boesen The Florist

Posted by Tom Boesen on December 16, 2025 Special Occasions Valentine's Day

How to Match Their Romance Style with Petals and Plans


When romance is on the calendar (or just in your heart), flowers are always a solid yes. Anniversaries, date nights, and, of course, Valentine’s Day, all call for a thoughtful bouquet that speaks to their unique style. Maybe it’s classic red roses, something that nods to your wedding flowers, or a bunch of their favorite color in full bloom. Choosing the right arrangement can feel like writing a love letter, and the next step matters just as much… the delivery. At Boesen the Florist, the premier flower shop in Des Moines, we love turning sweet gestures into core memories. Whether you’re inspired by Gary Chapman’s five love languages, the seven love styles, or something as specific as their favorite hobby, we’ve got plenty of romantic inspiration coming your way.

Pair Flowers with a Love Note, Poem, or Song Lyrics

If words are their love language, then this is your moment to shine. A handwritten note, a favorite lyric, or a swoony line from a poem can linger in their heart long after the flowers have blossomed. Pair those powerful words with an equally romantic bouquet like classic red roses for that love-you-forever energy, or soft seasonal blooms that whisper poetic love. Write your message on a card that they can treasure, or say it aloud with the flowers in hand. Sometimes, it’s the words and the petals that make a moment magical.

Pick Them Up From Work with Flowers on the Passenger Seat

Some love languages aren’t about grand gestures but about doing the thing so your person doesn’t have to. So, instead of their usual post-work hustle of cooking, cleaning, and reviewing homework with the kids, they’re greeted with a clean house, a completed to-do list, and romantic flowers waiting just for them. For the ones who speak fluent acts of service or have a practical love style, this is swoon central. Tidy up, tag in backup for the kids or pets, and show up like the heart-eyed hero you are. Bonus points for planning a night out that requires zero mental load.

Plan an Adventurous Day Together

If your partner thrives on quality time and making memories together, those fresh flowers can be the start of an epic adventure. Get creative and plan a day trip to a fun nearby town or city, a hike with an incredible view, or that pottery class you both keep talking about. Incorporate the bouquet into the surprise as a clue or as something you present over breakfast before hitting the road. It’s romance, it’s fun, it’s living your best lives hand-in-hand.

Brighten the Kitchen with Blooms While You Bake or Cook Together

If the way to their heart is through delicious food, surprise them with a kitchen filled with prepped ingredients, their favorite upbeat music, glowing candles, and stunning flowers that add color to the counter. Throw on your matching aprons (which could also be part of the gift), and cook up something delicious together. For the partner who loves quality time, shared experiences, or finds joy in the ritual of food, this is a core memory in the making.

Ensure They Have Fresh Stems All Year Long

Don’t stop at one bouquet when you could be the reason they smile every single month throughout the year! A flower subscription is the ultimate romantic gesture for long-distance sweethearts, the partner with a receiving gifts love language, or anyone who feels most loved through thoughtful, consistent acts of affection. Fresh seasonal stems are the kind of emotional support that keeps romance thriving on the regular. Because let’s be honest—flowers aren’t just for Valentine’s Day. They’re for every moment you’re in love.

Whether you’re all about the love languages, the romance styles, or just creating unforgettable moments, Boesen the Florist is here to help you say it all beautifully with fresh flowers that speak straight to their heart.